Monday, August 24, 2015

Planet Civitan 2015

Our favorite summer activity is Civitan Camp, and this year the Theme was Planet Civitan- Outta this world!  W was old enough to be a staff brat so we would have 3 of the 4 kids with us for a few days.
Rin's little friend Brinkly


Jimmy aka Batman

Josh and Logan at the talent show

Big Al, Ian, and Peyton

Dylan

 B and I had to move in Saturday morning.  I was an area parent at Native Village and B was the crew captain of the Hang Out (pool).  We were both excited about our positions and being back at NV together.  Most of Saturday was spent catching up with camp family and orientation meetings.  Counselors arrived and we ended the night with ice cream.  B and I found a little time to look at the stars down at the camp fire (one of our favorite places at camp).  Sunday all our campers came and it was so exciting.  It's one of the best days (they are all best days) to experience when parents drive through the gates and our friends are greeted with cheers and screams of excitement.  NV had 14 wonderful boys this year and each of them were great for us. 
Josh

Michael

Slade

Jimmy


Ian at Arts and Crafts

Ian at Adventure

I need to document my time with Ian.  From day one, Ian called me mom and insisted that I wake him in the morning and tuck him in at night.  It was such a great feeling and I enjoyed being his camp mom for the week.  I could never replace any of the boys' moms, but I will do everything I can to be the best camp mom they could ever have.  Ian was super sweet and made me feel so special.  His mom left notes for each day Ian was away, so during afternoon rest time, we would read his notes together in his cabin and pray for his family.  I hope my own children pray for me while they are away from me.  I could share stories about each of our 14 boys that we had at Native Village, but it would be way too long of a post. 
Our boys loading up for dinner

Silly Logan

Matthew

Big Al

Sweet Cristian

Cade at Art Expression

Rope

Rin, Abe, and Wes loved camp, just like we knew they would.  They joined us Monday afternoon and stayed with us through Thursday evening.  The boys stayed in the cabin with B and R slept in my bed with me.  One of the kids favorites to be around for the week was Al.  Al was so funny and played so well with the kids.  They woke up looking for Al, and Al was the last one they wanted to see before going to bed.  I look forward to many more years of camp with my very own kids. 
Matthew at the rock climbing wall

Our group at the Hang Out


swimming at the lake



B and I got to go back for one day of Adult Week.  We used to work both weeks, but since having kids and B changing jobs, we've had to scale back to 1 week.  If B ever got back to being a professor and having summers completely off, we would go back to working both week.  My two favorites of all times are adults now: Clayton and Kevin.  I leave a piece of my heart with them every year!

Brother-in-law Bill

Jo Jo

my Kevin

B and his girl Maggie


Dancing with Rory


my Clayton

James and Antoine

Happy Jon

Wednesday, August 5, 2015

Family Date Night

It's very important to B and myself, that we do our best as parents to raise our kids as Christ followers.  Part of that is teaching and demonstrating to them how guys are supposed to treat girls, and vice versa.  We have started implementing family date nights to help accomplish this.  It's a lot of fun, and the kids love it.  Here's how we've done it.

We pick a night, usually a Friday or Saturday night, and decide it's time for family date night.  Since we have 3 of each gender, every guy has a girl as his date.  Since it is a date, we all get dressed up nice, and we pick a nice place to eat.  One of my favorite places is Red Lobster, so that's where we've gone the last 2 times.  Before that, we went to a Chinese restaurant near our old house in Alief.  

B teaches the boys how to properly escort their dates, and I teach the girls how to let the guy hold the door and chair for you when you sit down.  Now not all ladies like the guy to order for them, but that's how we practice.  Abe escorts Rin, and Wes escorts Ell.  We sit across from your date, so you can look at them and practice having conversations with them.  Since we are at a nice place, we sit properly, and we keep our voices low.  The kids still color and do the kid activities, but for the most part, they act like little adults.  One of the hardest things about this is teaching them how to keep their napkins in their laps.  They start off strong, but as the dinner progresses, more and more napkins drop to the ground, and then W and A retrieve them from our feet.  That's one area we need to work on desperately.  B teaches the boys how to pay and tip the server, before escorting us out of the restaurant.  The most recent family date night was free since I still had gift cards to Red Lobster, so we decided to stop for FroYo on the way home.  We have a Menchies very close to our house, so that's where we ended our family date night.  The boys opened our doors and escorted us in, once again, and every couple shared a cup of froyo with mix-ins. 


I couldn't have asked for a better date night with my hubby and my kids.  This is one tradition that I hope we continue even past the time when our kids are teens because eating with family is just so special!

VBS @ SCBC Journey Off The Map


I want my kids to grow up going to VBS, so I decided that I would volunteer at SCBC so E, W, and A could attend.  Only school age children could go, unless the parent was volunteering so voila!  I requested to be with W, but I was told there were already too many teachers in his room, so I just told the ladies in charge to put me wherever they needed me.  I ended up in the 20-24 month old room and it really was a fun time.  I worked with a woman named Amy, and her 12 year old daughter named Jenna.  Vicki game and helped me on Thursday since VBS was during the 2 week period when she was in town.  I was glad that she was able to come help, because several people were missing on that last day. 



The kids had a great time, and their crafts were so cute.  The theme was Journey Off the Map and was all about Jesus as their guide.  I will definitely help out again, but I think I might like to be with older kids next time.  Maybe 2nd or 3rd graders....not sure, but I have 11 months to think about it.  We have the VBS soundtrack in Storm and we listen to it so much that it's starting to wear out and skip during songs 1 and 4.  I guess those are the songs that we listen to over and over. 



Sea World Trip

Since we purchased annual passes to Sea World San Antonio, we felt like we needed to use them to get our monies worth.  We found a weekend that worked for all 3 TX families so we planed a beginning of summer trip with  6 adults and 10 kids.  Our plan was to leave Friday morning after dropping Cooper off at Petshotel in Sugar Land. 
How E dressed herself ready for the day

We made it to Sea World around 11:00 am and met up with Marcus's family in Aquatica.  We all decided to spend Friday at Aquatica and Saturday at Sea World.

Both the other families were staying 2 nights in San Antonio, but we were heading back to Richmond, Saturday evening.  Aquatica was a lot of fun, but E sort of got the short end of the stick.  She couldn't ride any of the 'rides' because she was too small, but at Aquatica, unlike Sea World, there aren't any shows that she can watch.  So I took her to the baby area, but she was bored with that quickly.  E mainly played in the spray ground area and that was sort of our base for the day.  If bigger people wanted to ride some of the water rides, then E and Addie would stay in the spray ground with at least 1 adult.  B took R on some of the bigger ones with the older cousins, and A and I rode a slide that used a double tube.  We all had so much fun we forgot to eat lunch, so we all left around 6:00 (when it closed) and went to Chuy's for dinner.  We had a pretty long wait, but we sat outside and ate chips and salsa to pass the time.

W was upset and did not want to be in the group picture
Dinner was fun, but with 16 people sitting at one table, it was pretty loud and crazy at times.  Our day was a so much fun and we were tired.  We checked into our hotel, Comfort Inn after dinner, and put the kids to bed. B and I shared ear buds and watched a movie on the tablet. 

Saturday morning our goal was to watch the Sea Lion show at 10:45, and we all made it.  We ate breakfast at our hotel before checking out and then we sat with all the family at the Sea Lion High show.  I can't remember the order that we all did stuff, but I know that we spent some time at Sesame Street Bay of Play, Atlantis, Azul, One Ocean, and the big kids found time to ride The Steel Eel.  We at from Shamu's BBQ/Steakhouse but got our food to go and we ate while watching One Ocean.  Of course we were sitting in the splash zone, and B got splashed with his tray of food sitting on his lap.  It was funny and sad at the same time.  At least most of the food was gone, so only a few french fries and 1 corn dog go wet.  After we watched Azul, our family decided it was time to leave, because we had to get back and pick Cooper up by 9:00 pm from Petshotel.  We grabbed dinner on the way home and the kids were very tired.



All in all it was a great weekend trip to Sea World and we had a great time with the cousins.  I wish I had more pictures of Aquatica, but my phone/camera was up since it was a water park.  Anna had her water camera, so next time I'll get more of her pictures.





A month we want to forget!

I mentioned in the Easter post about hitting a deer in Cherry, but there's more to the series of unfortunate events that took place between March 29th and April 27th.  We call it the month we want to forget.

Thursday, March 26, we closed on our new home in Richmond, TX.  This was the perfect home in a great neighborhood in a cul-de-sac, with a pool.  It was a bit earlier than we initially thought we would buy a house, but God knew what was in store and knew we needed this house before "we" were ready.
Sunday night, March 29th, Cooper started barking at the front bay window (like normal) but this time, he jumped up and broke a window.  This wasn't the first time he had broken a window but this was the first time he sliced his foot open.  He had a 4 inch long cut along the top of his left paw that was bleeding out everywhere.  So between cleaning up the glass, the blood, and wrapping his foot, it was an eventful hour.  At least the kids were in bed asleep.  B had to take Cooper to a 24 hour emergency clinic where he got about 10 stitches and a cone around his neck.
Poor guy was limping around the house for a few days and didn't get much sleep with his cone, but it eventually healed.  4 days after the foot slice, is when we hit the deer with Cherry. 


We were able to drive it back to TX and we took it into the collision center so they could assess the damages.  Our insurance paid $30/day for a rental car so we had most of it covered.  We were given a Toyota Sienna that was great except it didn't have a DVD player. We found out Friday April 10th that Cherry was totaled (tear) and we had 30 days to find another vehicle to replace our beloved Cherry.
Fast forward to April 13th when we have AC for the week  AC and Jennie drove to Beaumont with A/W after the boys spent the week in MS with the grandparents.  Monday, R was in school like normal and we decided we would eat lunch with B at CBS.  While driving on Fondren, I start to hear sirens, so I pull over a little on the side, but I'm in the left most lane, so I can't really go far.  Then I see this black SUV screaming up the passenger side of us, and then cut across in front of us, go over the median, and continue driving against that side of traffic.  Right behind the black SUV, like 5 police cars came up and I was completely stopped, but one of the police cars bumped me.  It was a big enough bump that we all felt it, but I figured it wasn't going to be a lot of damage...however, we were in the rental.  So I just went straight to B's office because I wasn't really sure what else to do.  Now, I realize I should have pulled over and called the police, but they were dealing with a much bigger problem than me at the moment.  After getting Bryce, it turns out that we were not the only cars damaged in this high speed chase, and we were directed to the group of police officers where they finally caught the bad guy. 


They wrote up a report and we were home in time to get R from school.  In addition to the high speed police chase, our air conditioning wasn't working in the rental house, so we had all the windows down, trying to get a breeze.  It was hot though, and were dealing with the beginnings of pollen.
So Wednesday of that week, while at Bible Study at SCBS, we find out that B's mom (Gran) is in the hospital (we knew she was sick) and had some pre-diabetic test results.  She had double pneumonia  and diagnosed with congestive heart failure.  All the "cool kids" were very concerned, so Thursday morning, B told me that we needed to go to OK to be with his parents.



I totally agreed and AC was leaving anyways, so our plan was to pack up the family and drive to Edmond.  Anna made a good point though and offered to watch our kids so we wouldn't have them as a distraction.  I was so glad she did that, because it was better that they stayed back.  So Thursday morning, I drove AC to Beaumont to meet Jennie, then back to Houston to pack.  When I arrived home, just in time for R to get out of school, our toilets started to back flow again all in the guest bathroom (the second time it's done that).  I didn't have time to deal with that, so I just put towels on the floor and turned the water off.  Lorenzo was going to dog sit for us, so we let him know he couldn't flush or shower...yuck.  It was just not high on the priority list at the moment.  We dropped our kids off with Anna at Beck Jr. High because Avery was having her dress rehearsal for Legally Blonde.  I think we arrived in Edmond at 2:00 am Friday morning and it was just in time because Vicki was discharged from the hospital Friday at 10:00.  We got her home and settled in her chair.  We had to do breathing treatments every hour and she was supposed to get up and walk too.  Once we got into a routine, she was comfortable with, B and I went to the grocery store so I could get things to make some meal for them.  I was able to cook 5-6 meals, but in small portions that filled their freezer.  There's no way I could've gotten all that cooking done with the 4 kids with us.  So, again, I'm thankful that Aunt Mo kept them for the weekend.  Unfortunately, while she had them, R and A both had puke episodes, so Paul M did quite a bit of cleaning around their house.  We missed our kids, B had to work, and we needed to get our kids out of Anna's house, so we drove home Sunday night and got our kids from Anna's around 2:15 am and back to our rental at 3:00 am.  I let R sleep in a little before taking her to school Monday morning (April 20) and to make sure she didn't puke, and poor B ended up taking a sick day because 2 kids were puking, he hadn't had enough sleep, and he wasn't feeling good either.  Just 2 days later, April 22, the 3 kids and myself arrived back to our hose after playing with some friends, and our front door was wide open and Cooper was walking around outside.  I thought maybe I had not shut the door all the way when leaving, but it turns out, that our house was broken in to while we were gone. Thank the Lord, it didn't happen while we were home, but I feel confident that whoever it was, knew we would be leaving.  Cooper is officially the worst guard dog ever.  The only things taken were my jewelry box, earring box, and our fireproof safe.  Oh, and my pillow case.  Once I realized what had happened, I called B and the police.  B rushed home and then we waited an hour before the police showed up.  He walked through the house and then took some notes about what was taken.  The likelihood that the bad guys would be caught was low, but we still had to file a police report and then work on our renters insurance.  The front door had been kicked in, so the lock was broken. The dead bolt still worked, but not from the outside, so every-time I wanted to leave the house, we had to go out the back door and around the side gate.  Our renters insurance replaced our personal belongings, but not the door.  B was very upset (obviously) so he was ready to move into our new house like yesterday.  I asked him to give me a week and I could pack up the house...so that's exactly what we did.  We spent the last weekend in April van shopping and then we bought Storm on April 27th.  We named her Storm

to remind us of the month of storms and how God provides and gives us strength and never leaves us during our storms.  It's a 2006 Honda Odyssey, just like Cherry except with a navigation system.  I'm loving Storm.  Then we packed up our house, and moved out of the rental on May 2nd.  Yep, May 2nd, we spent our first night in our new house, and have loved every night since. 

God knew we would want to move earlier than June 30th, and it only took a few bumps in the road, before we knew it too.


Monday, July 6, 2015

Ell is TWO

E's birthday fell on a Saturday this year so we got to spend the entire day together as a family.  The older kids had their soccer games, but then we picked up E's Minnie Mouse birthday cake and headed to Katy for an afternoon of swimming and birthday fun!  We let E open some of her gifts before going to Katy and she was so excited about her Minnie sun glasses.  She'd been wearing the boy's SpongeBob sun glasses so I'm glad she has her own now.  But the one thing that she would not put down was her new baby doll and baby stroller.  I knew that she would enjoy a stroller because she likes to push her own stroller around with stuffed animals in it.  No one had to teach this little girl how to be nurturing and play with dolls.  It has come to her naturally.




While in Katy, the cousins swam together and E got this rash all over her.  It looked a lot like hives so we gave her some benedryll to help.  She didn't seem bothered, but it looked bad. 
note: sun glasses and baby doll


We ate, swam, sang Happy Birthday to Ell, swam some more and had cake.  After swimming we went inside and the cousins gave their gifts to E (and W).  She was showered with fun gifts from the cousins, but again, she was most excited about the Minnie Mouse lunch box.  This girl loves Minnie Mouse. 


I don't even remember what else we did in Katy, but I know that E feel asleep on the way home.  I'm sure she was tired from the excitement of the day, but I know the benedryll has that affect on kids too.  She had a great birthday and I can't believe she's 2!  She's my last "baby" and she not a baby anymore.  Quickly, before my eyes, she's turning into a kid.  She's silly and smart and very controlled.  She controls her speech and when she wants to use it.  She will not perform tricks or things upon command, and she has her opinions about almost everything.  She loves her siblings and wants to follow them around all the time.  She has a strong desire for independence which I'm not ready to give to her yet because she is my last baby.  I'm loving watching her grow and learn everyday.  She's small for her age right now but you know what they say...good things come in small packages.